“Do you have life figured out?“ A client recently asked me that during a coaching session. Not as a challenge, and not with irony — but as a genuine question. And in many ways, that’s what made it so telling. The question itself points to how deeply we’ve been taught to think of life as […]
The “Not Enough” Brain: Understanding Reward Deficiency Syndrome (RDS) in Men with ADHD If you have ADHD, you’ve likely spent your life feeling like you’re running on a treadmill that never quite reaches the finish line. You achieve a goal, you land the deal, you win the argument—and instead of feeling great about it, you […]
Recently while reading a book for pleasure (yes, I do that sometimes, not enough, but sometimes, you should try it too!), one of the characters complimented another on being prepared to name the conflict. Why? Because it equips them to attack the problem and not the person. When we “attack” the problem, not the person, […]
What is Weltschmerz? Why do I need to know to maintain my hope? The world is currently not in a happy place. We hear it. We see it. And we feel it. So many people I am talking to, myself included, have been feeling down, sad, anxious, tired and a bit hopeless. Suddenly most things […]
For many people, tiredness is simple: too little sleep means too little energy. Yet, for individuals with ADHD, the story is far more complex: hidden exhaustion of ADHD becomes a constant companion—one that is often invisible and misunderstood, yet profoundly affects daily functioning, work performance, and mental health. Sleep alone doesn’t solve the tiredness neurodivergent […]
Why Creating Inclusive Workplaces for Women Also Supports Neurodivergent Talent Insights from the 2025 Working Women in South Africa Report The recently released Working Women in South Africa Report 2025 by RecruitMyMom highlights the real experiences, challenges, and priorities of over 3,700 skilled South African women in the workforce. As organisations seek to retain top […]
For children with ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), or Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), sensory input can significantly impact their ability to focus, self-regulate, and engage in everyday tasks—especially in learning and working environments. Wobble cushions have been a favourite tool to use to combat this and to “aid” in promoting focus. But do they really […]
Transitions refer to the process of moving from one state, activity, or situation to another. They can be physical, cognitive, emotional, or social, and they occur constantly throughout our daily lives. Whether we’re switching tasks at work, moving from one environment to another, or shifting our focus, transitions are integral to how we navigate the […]
Understanding Neuroinflammation: Symptoms, Causes, Diagnosis, and Its Connection to ADHD Neuroinflammation refers to inflammation occurring within the brain and central nervous system. Unlike visible inflammation in other parts of the body, neuroinflammation can be subtle, often manifesting in ways that impact cognitive and emotional functioning. Identifying and addressing neuroinflammation can be crucial for those experiencing […]
Benefits of Late Diagnosis Statistics reveal a notable gender disparity in the timing of diagnoses for neurodevelopmental conditions such as ADHD and autism. Women are more likely than men to receive a diagnosis later in life. For example: Receiving a late diagnosis can offer profound relief and validation for many women. It provides an explanation […]